Over the past few years, conversations about masculinity in the church have taken some troubling turns. It's not uncommon to hear claims that churches alienate men, stifle their leadership, or cater exclusively to women. These ideas aren't just floating around in quiet corners, they have been championed by well-known voices like Mark Driscoll, Doug Wilson,... Continue Reading →
Clearing Out the Trophy Case of Shame
Ever notice how easy it is to collect our old failures and disappointments, almost like trophies? I call it my "trophy case of shame." It's there in my mind, a case lined with memories and words I've heard over the years, each polished up and preserved. If you could see it, you'd find rows of... Continue Reading →
We Are Being Bought and Sold
Imagine stepping into a bustling marketplace. Signs everywhere, voices calling, colors popping. But here’s the twist: you are not there to buy anything—they are there to buy you. This is where we are today. In 2024, advertisers in the U.S. alone are spending around $373 billion, all directed toward capturing our time, emotions, and, ultimately,... Continue Reading →
Don’t Be Stupid
“Don’t go to stupid places; don’t associate with stupid people; don’t do stupid things.” ~ John Farnham “Don’t go to stupid places.” The idea here is simple: stay away from places where trouble breeds. The Proverbs provide vivid warnings about staying off paths that lead nowhere good. “Do not enter the path of the wicked,... Continue Reading →
Exiles in Babylon, Citizens of the Kingdom
We stand on the wisdom of those who have gone before us, who faced pressures and powers that felt insurmountable. When Jesus said, “My kingdom is not of this world” (John 18:36), He was drawing a line—a reminder that, as citizens of His kingdom, our loyalties, our battles, and our victories are not found in... Continue Reading →